 STOP
EMOTIONAL
BS FROM
RUINING YOUR
LIFE!
In this breakthrough book, Dr. Carl Alasko takes apart the emotional stealth disease that destroys trust and happiness in every area of life: dating, marriage, parenting, friendship and work. Nothing is exempt from this hidden plague, including your financial security.
Dr. Alasko provides a revolutionary way to eliminate Emotional BS from your life, significantly increasing your happiness and fulfillment. This astoundingly effective solution works for everyone in every situation.
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JESSICA AND MARK VIDEOS
Mark gets dumped by Jessica
See what prompted
Jessica's decision
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| MONTEREY HERALD COLUMN
Published 25 Jan 2010
GUIDELINES FOR HAVING AN AFFAIR
Dear Dr. Alasko: About 10 years ago I had an affair. At the time it seemed like an OK thing to do. Each of us left our spouse and we eventually married.
But now I think my husband is having another affair. When I confronted him, he got angry and said if I was unhappy I should leave. I'm learning that some of my friends have also confessed to having affairs. I wonder why it seems that sexual infidelity is no big deal?
Dear Reader: In fact, sexual infidelity is a big deal. In a committed relationship, it's the highest form of betrayal. In some societies it can result in death.
Our society, however, has somehow found a way to downplay the seriousness of sexual betrayal. That many prominent people have been guilty of affairs might help normalize the behavior.
The reason affairs are so (relatively) common is because the biological need for sex is joined to the emotional need for connection and affirmation. If a person isn't getting enough of either in a committed relationship, that person will look elsewhere. And why not?
Well, there are some very solid reasons for why not.
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